The Hard Conversation Framework
A short structure for the conversation you have been delaying.
Name the standard. Show the gap with evidence. Ask one question. Decide together on the next concrete step. Put it on the calendar.
- Name the standard, not the person
- Show the gap with evidence the other person can see
- Ask one question that makes it safe to be honest
- Decide together on the next concrete step
- Put it on the calendar before either of you leaves the room